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Safe Conversations
Workshop

What could it do for your relationships
​if you had the skill and tools to

talk without criticism 
listen without judgment 
& 
connect through your differences

Safe Conversations Workshop

NOW ENROLLING FOR MARCH 21 WORKSHOP IN PROVO/OREM, UTAH
Register Now
Safe Conversations is a new way of talking that makes it safe for everyone to connect through difference.
​Using a three-step process Safe Conversations teaches you to grow and become more present in your relationships.
The Problem Behind All Problems...  and Why Safe Conversations is Transforming Lives...
watch the video below.

Learn why we experience conflict with those we love
​and what to do about it!


 Safe Conversations is a process developed by, Drs. Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt.   ​They took what they learned after working with couples for 40+ years and simplified best practices into this easy process anyone can use!

Love is more than a feeling  
It is Science.

You’ll learn how to:
  • Transform conflict to connection
  • Understand and be understood by your partner
  • Talk & listen in a whole new way
  • Eliminate negativity from your conversations
  • Train your brain to engage in healthy ways
  • Experience connection beyond differences
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​The Safe Conversations process has three parts:

Mirroring
Repeating back what your partner said,
​so their feelings are heard
Validating
​Seeing your partner’s perspective from their point of view without surrendering your own
Empathizing
Imagining the feelings your partner had while they were sending their message

To practice these, ​our Interactive Workshops include:

Dialogue
A new way to talk and listen that creates a safe relationship
Fun Sessions
A Mix of demos, lectures, and practice
Follow Up
Support and practice groups
Safe Conversations has reached over 175 countries and over 5,100 US cities,
​serving more than 450,000 people 


98% of people who participated in Safe Conversations
​felt that their experience was inspiring and life changing.


RelationshipsFirst™ , the developer of Safe Conversations Workshops,
and Southern Methodist UniversityRelationshipsFirst™
commissioned SMU Center of Research and Evaluation -
Annette Caldwell Simmons School of Education and Human Development - to conduct a rigorous outcomes study
of the Safe Conversations workshops held in 2015 and 2016.


After the workshop and six weeks later...

Couples’ relationships characteristics were described as:
better overall relationship well being
improved togetherness
less fighting
more family well being
greater happiness


Couples’ personal characteristics were described as:
more positive emotional expressions
increased confidence
decrease in anxiety
decreased feelings of inadequacy
greater happiness


Couples family well being was characterized by:
increased overall family well being
greater happiness in their roles as parents
decreased parenting stress
decreased family conflict
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How could your relationships improve?

If you spoke without criticism 
Listened without judgment 
& C
onnected while honoring your differences?
Come find out.
Register Now
NOW ENROLLING FOR MARCH 21 WORKSHOP IN PROVO/OREM, UTAH
March 21, 2020 
​9 AM - 4 PM

$225/couple (any combination: married,engaged, parent-adult child)

$197/couple Early Bird Pricing ends February 29  
At the door pricing $250/couple 
Limited Seating
Register now to hold your spot.


Register Now!
Still need more information?  
Contact us here.
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The products and services offered by BJ Stober Counseling are neither made, provided, approved nor endorsed by Intellectual Reserve, Inc. or The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Any content or opinions expressed, implied or included in or with the goods (services) offered by BJ Stober Counseling are solely those of BJ Stober Counseling and not those of Intellectual Reserve, Inc. or The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. ​

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  • Home
  • Counseling
  • About BJ
  • Suicide Prevention & Healing
    • Suicide Prevention & Healing
    • Suicide Hotlines, Online Resources and Apps
    • 5 Steps to Help Someone Else
    • Recovery from Suicide Attempt
    • For Those Left Behind
    • Help for Ecclesiastical Leaders
    • Neurobiology of the Brain
  • Resources
    • Encouragement
    • Books & Videos
    • Events >
      • Retreats
      • Safe Conversations Training
  • Contact BJ
  • Telehealth